The biggest delinquent of dudes is that they shy away. I don’t know how conjoint it is or how singular it is, but I know one thing; almost all folks face this problem. Oh please girls, don’t arbiter this statement, I can’t understand your emotive gratified but I know after reading this article, you are going to giggle and it will help you to learn a guy’s state of mind.
The story goes back to 2006, when I was in first year of the college. A geek, who was downright into books and clandestinely used to venerate beautiful girls of college but lacked the guts to speak my mind, May be solving an electrical circuit with required voltage and current was way easier than approaching a hot girl. Mostly, in the first year of college, young boys and girls tries to get paired up and seventy percent of them do reconnoiter the options available.
I had strong crush on a girl, she was my classmate and I liked her because of her mellowness in behavior and ability to handle the situation. What I liked her were the things which I needed and made me totally opposite personality of hers. Do opposite charges attract each other? Don’t worry, you will find it successively. Ah, the engineer inside me always keeps comparing it with the electrical notions. Now, you know how nerd I used to be, this is nothing.
My crush and I used to have really long tête-à-têtes about several things since morning till evening. The best part was, she used to love talking to me and the worst part was I used to be silent because I used to waste most of time thinking, should I say or should I keep shut. Days passed followed by couple of months and finally the month of internals emanated. The mecca for all the dedicated students, where beautiful girls who are good at management and laced up with leadership skills, extract the knowledge out of us. She finally asked me for a date, which was not a thought-provoking date but a smart one ‘study date’.
So, she asked me to bunk the electronics and devices lab period and to come up with her to library where we can study together. How could I say NO? Straight away I agreed to bunk first time ever in my student life, that too with my crush. We went to library and sat together. Now, this is the point where the introversion comes into play. My drawback led to my student instinct and I started teaching her the chapters which were supposed to come in the exam. Her shoulder was sinking, I knew she is getting bored but my lack of experience and poor research on case study of dates of other people led to a plummet. She took out her cell and texted to someone. I thought she is just texting randomly to some arbitrary friend.
You know, boys are biggest back stabbers, they will never turn up for a fella on time comparatively when a girl will call. Her friend appeared within ten minutes and took her away in front of my eyes. She was going away and my heart was plummeting like it was Russian submarine ‘K-19 the Widow maker’. She was feeling relaxed in the similar way Kareena Kapoor in Jab We Met felt after catching the train on time. Lesson learnt was punitive, so unforgiving that I even cannot segment with you. The mutilations of the first unsuccessful date are still there on my heart which cannot be redone by even a successful heart transplant. Probably, this is the crush story of every shy guy on this planet whose crush succeeds in crushing his sensations.
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